I honestly believe that he thinks his perfect girl is gonna fall from the sky and land in his bed. He wants this ideal girl
- Prefers boobs over butt but it doesn’t really matter
- A black girl with long hair that isn’t weave or natural (about waist length)
- She’s bougie yet down-for-the-cause at the same time
- 5ft-5’4” no taller (he’s not that tall)
- Preferably in a certain black greek organization
- And the list goes on….
To be honest, he’s never gonna find this girl and if he keeps waiting for her he’s gonna end up missing on all the other females that enter his life and he’s gonna end up alone for the rest of his life.
He’s not willing to actually go out so he doesn’t meet any new people outside of our campus which is bad cuz our campus is pretty small and his group of friends is very tiny. That right there sets him up for failure.
Every time I see a person talk about how relationships are work I think of him and how he’s not willing to even put in the simple effort to even find a girl to talk to. How would he ever have a relationship??? Me and another friend of mine tried to help him find a boo but it was too difficult. He’s not open-minded at all. He wants what he wants. There’s nothing wrong with that but he’s never gonna meet a girl that meets his requirements 100% and if he does she’s gonna eat and spit him up.
Relationships are about making each other happy, being there for one another, etc. Looks play a part but it shouldn’t be the main focus of how you want to find someone.
I just feel sad for my friend…